My time spent abroad was wonderful. I'm extremely thankful that I was able to partake in this experience and spend my summer in Europe! I had never been in Europe, trying to adjust to two different countries in two months, but I'm really glad I took a leap of faith and pushed myself beyond my comfort zone.
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I decided to spend some extra time after both of the programs exploring through Italy by myself for a week. This helped me build a sense of confidence and trust within myself. I was really nervous to solo travel because as a woman, I felt scared that I was putting myself in an unsafe situation, but I trusted myself and that I was making the right decision. I met so many unique and different people, but most of all, I was met with kindness and reassurance which helped me feel a sense of belonging. As intimidating as this whole trip was, I found comfort in meeting people who were in the same boat as me: being in a new place and in a new culture.
My favorite times were the small interactions on tour buses or trains where I was able to help someone out and we could tell each other about our journeys because it lifted some weight off of my shoulders and helped me connect with people. It made me feel less alone and proud that I was able to get out of my comfort zone and lend a helping hand to someone else who needed a little support.
I'm on my way home in a few days, and I'm excited to see what this newfound sense of trust and belonging will bring with it. I think taking the leap of faith was harder than coming back home because once I got here I started to feel more settled in and comfortable. The best thing I think someone can do when coming back home is taking some time to spend with friends and family. Sure, adjusting to the time difference is a challenge of its own, but reconnecting with what is familiar and what feels like home helps one settle back into reality because traveling abroad truly feels like a dream.
If anyone is on the fence about studying abroad, I think the best advice I can give is to recognize how unique and special of an opportunity it truly is. Home will always be there, and there is plenty of support that the UO offers if finances are a priority. All it takes is some dedication and bravery. The best thing about leaving the pond is remembering it's always there waiting for us to come back, but some of the best stories you'll have are the ones you make when flying high out of the nest.
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Nathalie Valenzuela, Diverse Ducks Ambassador