Flexibility and relaxation in Siena

Ciao!

These past few weeks in Italy have been nothing short of extraordinary. My study abroad experience here has far exceeded my expectations, offering a rich array of unforgettable moments. Each day brings a new adventure, from engaging academic lessons and exploring renowned museums to savoring exquisite wines and taking spontaneous European trips. Siena, in particular, has been a revelation. As the biannual Palio approaches, the town buzzes with an electrifying energy, filled with lively gatherings, music, and dancing that create a vibrant atmosphere unlike anything I’ve experienced before.

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One striking difference I've noticed between Italy and the U.S. is the pace of life. Back home, there’s a relentless drive to be productive —every minute is maximized, and there’s pressure to constantly achieve. In contrast, Italy embraces a more leisurely pace. There’s a focus on enjoying the present moment, whether it's through long meals with friends, evening strolls, or simply relaxing at a café. This cultural shift has been both refreshing and eye-opening. I’ve found myself gradually embracing this slower rhythm, appreciating and immersing in each experience in a way that would have been challenging back home due to the constant rush.

Reflecting on my life as a student-athlete in the U.S., the difference becomes even clearer. My days were meticulously planned around balancing academics and athletics, with every hour accounted for and punctuality being crucial. Adaptability was necessary, but often felt like a challenge. Here in Italy, I’ve discovered a more flexible approach to daily life. Plans are often spontaneous, and schedules are less rigid. It’s acceptable for things to change, and being a little late isn’t seen as disrespectful but as part of a more relaxed approach to time. Adjusting to this has been a challenge but also a valuable lesson. I’ve learned to embrace flexibility and found that deviations from the plan can lead to unexpected joys and discoveries.

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Punctuality has always been a core value for me, seen as a sign of respect and responsibility in the U.S. However, in Italy, punctuality is viewed differently. Arriving late is often acceptable and not considered disrespectful, reflecting a more relaxed attitude toward time. This adjustment has been enlightening, expanding my perspective on different ways to live and value time.

This journey has been transformative, teaching me to embrace change with grace and find beauty in a more relaxed approach to life. It has highlighted the importance of being present, valuing experiences over rigid schedules, and recognizing that life’s richness often lies in unexpected moments. As I continue this incredible adventure, I am grateful for the lessons learned and the memories made, which will shape who I am in the years to come.

Mallory Kent, Diverse Duck Ambassador

Wine Marketing in Siena, Summer 2024