My study abroad experience at Waseda University was by far the most adventure-filled and thrilling time of my life. Every day was an adventure, and each was more exciting than the last. But with every passing day those adventures become memories. What do you do when your exchange comes to an end and your inevitable return home makes it so there are no more memories left to make? This question hit me very hard as I waved goodbye to my club mates for the last time as the train doors closed between us. As the last Tokaido line train of the night left Shinjuku Station, I realized that it’s not just the place you leave behind, it’s also the people.
I spent every day of the week for months at a time with my peers and friends in the Waseda University Kendo Club. They were so gracious and welcoming to me as an exchange student. Through my hard work and their welcoming attitude, I felt I had become a true member of their club.
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When I started my exchange, I was determined to become immersed in a group that was truly “Japanese.” I knew it was going to be hard work to be a part of a strict athletic club at Waseda. Joining the club meant I had to adhere to the same strict rules that every other member was expected to. Being the only foreigner forced me to learn and adapt in new and dynamic cultural situations. This was immeasurably valuable when it came to exploring my half Japanese identity. Being a part of a club and feeling assimilated into a group of Japanese students afforded me so many amazing opportunities I never could have dreamed of. To anyone who may wish to deepen their understanding of their own Japanese identity, I highly recommend studying abroad and joining a club while you do it.
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Throughout my time with the club, I was staying at an international student dorm. Thanks to this I was lucky enough to meet so many amazing friends from all over the world. Even though we all came from different cultures and identities, we built strong bonds through the many new experiences we shared. To those who study abroad, make an effort to engage with other international students. You will be rewarded with lifelong friendships with people from all over the world.
But because we are all exchange students, in the end everyone needs to go home. The bittersweet of any experience abroad is that it is finite. Because my time was limited, the memories and friendships I made had a certain strength and vitality I have never seen before. Though leaving the life I had built at Waseda was sad, it was also invigorating to return home. With all the memories and lessons I collected while abroad, I felt my perspective and identity was forever changed in the most positive way imaginable. I feel as though anything is possible, and I am so excited to see where I will go next.
By Joey Matsuno, Diverse Ducks Ambassador
Waseda University Exchange, Fall 2023